Tomorrow is my 18th birthday. I am beyond excited to be able to legally drive past 9PM, vote, and sign my own documents. Turning 18 marks the beginning of a new season in my life. In 2 weeks I will be graduating high school. In 6 weeks I will be on a plane flying to my favorite place on earth - India. And, in 9 weeks I will be moving half-way across the country. This is a lot of excitement for one girl!!
However, as I look forward to "growing up" and starting a new season of life, I cannot help but think back on my childhood... When I think about growing up, I think of mostly good things. I'm blessed to be one of those people that has to search in order to think of "bad things" about my childhood.
God has laid it on my heart to think back on my childhood on the eve of my 18th birthday and share with you some of the life lessons I've learned throughout my 18 years. So, as I listen to my Disney Pandora station, I will write of the 18 most memorable lessons I have learned in my life.
1. Jesus loves me, this I know. Can it get any more simple than this?? I think more people across the world know this song more than any other. I'm pretty sure I was born singing it. It has been embedded into my heart so much that sometimes I have to actually think about the theology behind it instead of singing it so absentmindedly. This is the song that has shaped who I am today. Every other life lesson I've learned is based off of this simple truth.
2. God is always good. I cannot tell you how many times my parents have said this to me. Most of the time it was in seasons of confusion or pain. Because of that, though, I will always fall back on the knowledge that my God is always good. No matter what.
3. My family is always dependable. No matter what I'm going through, my family will always be there. They're the only people that I know will always be "Team Joni" even when I'm wrong.
4. It really is more important to be kind than to be pretty. My mom has asked me the question "Is it more important to be pretty or to be kind?" for as long as I can remember. My mom has taught me that I will not always be the smartest, most athletic or prettiest girl. But I can always be the kindest.
5. Never Land is not a real place. If you know me, you are not surprised that I found a way to incorporate Peter Pan in this! As much as I wish I could fly off to Never Land tonight so that I never have to grow up, I know that growing up is apart of life. I have to live believing that what lies ahead of me is greater than what lies behind me.
6. Sleeping with lizards is more fulfilling than sleeping in the air conditioning. No matter how old I get, I don't think I will ever forget the lessons that I've learned from the mission field. One of them being that serving Jesus Christ fills me up even when I'm uncomfortable and weak.
7. I will never out-grow Disney movies. At least I hope this one it true!!
8. Change is good. The first major change I had in my life (that I can remember) is watching my oldest brother, Matt, leave for college. I remember waking up early one morning to hug him goodbye. My family gathered in the driveway to watch as he started his journey. Never did I think that my day would come so quickly!! Many changes came after that including sending 3 more siblings off to college, moving to a new state, watching and cheering my dad on as he planted a new church, starting high school, and adding three sisters and 4 little ones to our family. Although not every change has been easy, I have learned that seasons come and go. It's in the changes that I have learned the most.
9. "God is bigger than the boggy man." Yes, I have seen Veggie Tales a couple of times. However, this very "childish lesson" has taught me so much. My life will not always be free of controversy and conflict (or whatever happens to be my "boggy man" at the moment), but God is bigger than my circumstances.
10. I am not the center of the world. No matter how many missions trips I go on, I continue to learn how little I really am. My needs look like luxuries compared to the other needs I've seen around the world.
11. People will disappoint me. This is one of those lessons that I learn daily. There will always be difficult people in my life. If they weren't there, then who would I have to share the love of Jesus Christ with?
12. Jeremiah 29:11 is really true. My mentor and youth leader, "Miss Angel," will never grow tired of quoting this verse to me. In my victories and in my hardships, I have found myself quoting this verse over and over. I hope that no matter how old I get, I will never forget the sound of her voice reminding me that God knows the plans that He has for my life and that they are good.
13. God's Word changes things. When I was little, I dealt with fear. I remember nights of laying in bed, crying and screaming because of the fear that gripped me. I even hid from the Pizza guy whenever he showed up at our door!! When I was about 10, I joined Bible Quizzing. This forced me to memorize dozens of verses that I can still quote today. After a while, not only did my head know those verses, but my heart did too. And well, God's Word... it changed the way I live.
14. Being a doer is more important than being a hearer. This is one of the Bible verses that I don't think I will ever forget. I have gone through seasons of sitting in church because it's what I do... I am a pastor's kid, after all! But God always seems to wake me up from this nightmare. No matter how many church services I sit in, I am not going to change my world. In order to change the world, it is absolutely necessary to be a doer.
15. Always look both ways before crossing the street. Yes, I mean this literally and metaphorically. Hopefully you've learned the literal part of this lesson before. However, I've learned that when making a decision it is necessary to look down both paths and make sure that what I'm about to decide or say will not hurt anyone else or cause a verbal collision. This is one of the toughest lessons to learn!
16. Authority is good. Aren't you proud, mom?? I've actually learned this lesson before I've turned eighteen! Whether it's my parents, older sibling, teachers, youth leaders, mentors, or my friend's parents, I've learned that their wisdom really does make sense. I have come to points in my life where I've had to make a big decision or needed counsel through a hard time. The people who have given me the best advice have been the people who daily walk with Jesus and who really do love me.
17. I'm broken. I am a broken, needy, poor, hungry child who can only be fixed by a cross. I learned this lesson on a missions trip to Honduras. When I compared my earthly wealth to those living on the streets and bathing in dirty water, I learned that I am just as broken and needy as them. I need a Savior. It is as simple as that.
18. I will never stop learning. Life always has lessons to teach me. Usually it's in the moments where I think I don't need to learn anything. I'm always amazed at how much a child can teach me. I hope and pray that I learn more in my next 18 years than I have thus far.